We long for our children’s love and
approval just as they long for ours.
But now: they are
ascendant, we fading;
Our stars passing
In the heavens before that
long dark night.
And just as our new selves are struggling to be born, their
new selves are struggling to be born.
We have always defined ourselves in
opposition to each other and none more than that part of ourselves than grows
outside us, independent and separate from ourselves.
They are our light. If we shine, it is in their caressing luminescence.
(As they shine in ours.)
The umbilical. It runs both ways: from us
to them and them to us.
For each of us to be free, each of us must be free.
- J. Chu (1932)